Our Story
Enabled2Parent began its journey as a response to the gaps in support experienced by our founder, Sarah Fay, a Paediatric Occupational Therapist and a disabled parent herself. During her pregnancy and the early days of parenthood, Sarah found that accessible, inclusive parenting support was often out of reach. Suitable mother-and-baby classes were limited, integrating necessary caregivers was challenging, and useful information for disabled parents simply wasn't available.
As Sarah sought guidance, she discovered that many disabled parents in England and Wales not only lacked practical advice but sometimes lost custody of their children due to misperceptions and inadequate support systems. Determined to change this, Sarah founded Enabled2Parent in 2020, dedicating the charity to filling these crucial gaps. Our mission is to ensure that every parent, whatever their needs or circumstances, receives the assistance, information and community they deserve. Today, Enabled2Parent uses technology, a trained disability parenting specialist, and strong peer networks to support and empower disabled parents on their unique journeys.
Our Mission
We're here to help disabled parents, families and professionals by providing unwavering support and clear guidance at every stage of the parenting journey. Our mission encompasses:
- Supporting informed choices through pregnancy and in parenthood
- Recommending adaptive parenting equipment for daily living
- Delivering expert training and awareness sessions for professionals
- Building peer support and networking opportunities
Our impact in numbers
Over 80 personalised care plans completed for supported parents
6-week support groups of up to 10 parents
Over 800 members actively engaged in our community
Why It Matters
The experiences of disabled parents reach well beyond the individual, affecting entire families and communities. Our advocacy supports disabled parents so children aren't disadvantaged by barriers in society. Together, with support for disabled families across England and Wales, we're working towards a future where every family feels included, respected and supported.
Sarah Fay, Founder of Enabled2Parent
Sarah Fay is a dedicated Paediatric Occupational Therapist and founder of Enabled2Parent, established to offer real, practical support for disabled parents in England and Wales. Graduating from the University of Derby in 1995, Sarah began her career in North London, working across both physical medicine and mental health. Her professional journey led her overseas to New Zealand, India, and Eastern Europe, where she supported children with complex needs. Sarah then transitioned to Higher Education as a Lecturer at Canterbury Christchurch University, publishing “The Special Educator's Toolkit,” and completing advanced qualifications in teaching and OT practice.
Returning to hands-on work in 2010, Sarah developed expertise in medico-legal practice, creating reports to support children and adults after personal injuries. She continues to provide expert assessments for disabled parents involved in Family Court cases. Sarah's personal story is deeply woven into the foundation of Enabled2Parent. During a routine scan for a suspected tumour, she discovered her pregnancy at thirty weeks. This announcement began a very challenging and brief pregnancy, further complicated by both Sarah and her husband's disabilities.
Experiencing her own mental health challenges, Sarah was admitted to a Mother and Baby Unit, where she proved,through thorough assessment,her capability to parent independently. Despite being classed as “high risk” and undergoing a year of community monitoring, Sarah was given her parenting “wings” after her daughter's first year. Nearly eight years on, their family thrives, demonstrating the power of appropriate support and understanding.
Combining her clinical knowledge, lived experience and drive to help others, Sarah ensures that Enabled2Parent supports parents (and even grandparents) at any stage, from planning through to everyday family life. Her expertise covers equipment needs, housing, functional and driving assessments, applications for benefits including PIP, and child-related health and development concerns.
Sarah is especially passionate about enabling professionals to understand and improve their support for disabled parents. Through ongoing training and education, she helps organisations and advocates across the South East and beyond. Her continued commitment to inclusion, empowerment, and advocacy is at the heart of all that Enabled2Parent stands for.
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Our Trustees
Graham
Treasurer
Graham is a skilled finance professional and associate member of the AAT, with over three years' volunteer experience in financial management.
As Treasurer at Enabled2Parent, he manages financial records, handles reporting and delivers clear financial summaries. Graham's expertise includes budgeting, forecasting and reconciliation, alongside volunteering as Assistant Treasurer at St Denys Church. He is dedicated to ensuring the financial strength and transparency of our charity.
Enabled2Parent is supported by a diverse and committed board of trustees, all sharing a passion for better, more inclusive services for disabled parents. Our trustees use their professional experience to guide and support our work, helping us remain a reliable organisation for disabled parents across England and Wales.
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Paul
Trustee
Paul is a safeguarding professional with a long history of supporting families through complex and challenging situations. He has worked across policing, education and health, always with a calm, person centred approach and a deep belief in the strengths of every parent.
Paul is passionate about inclusion and ensuring that disabled parents receive fair, respectful and empowering support. His experience working alongside adults and children with physical, sensory, learning and mental‑health needs gives him a strong understanding of the barriers families can face — and the difference the right support can make.
As a trustee of Enabled2Parent, Paul brings warmth, curiosity and a steady, relational style. He is committed to helping the charity champion the rights of disabled parents, improve professional understanding, and create a future where every family is supported to thrive.
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Enabled2Parent Financial Gain and Conflict of Interest Policy
All trustees, staff, volunteers and representatives must put the interests of Enabled2Parent above any personal, financial, or professional interests when acting on behalf of the charity. Any individual involved in the governance, management, or delivery of services must declare any actual, potential, or perceived conflict of interest as soon as it arises. A conflict includes any situation where personal interests, relationships, external roles, or financial circumstances could influence (or be perceived to influence) decision‑making. Where the CEO provides professional services (such as clinical, advocacy, training, or consultancy work) on behalf of Enabled2Parent, and where all income is paid directly to the charity, this must be:
- Fully declared to the Board of Trustees
- Considered and authorised by non‑conflicted trustees
- Regularly reviewed to ensure compliance with charity law and public benefit requirements
- The CEO must not be involved in decisions relating to pricing, contracting, deployment, or approval of their own work.
Any person with a declared conflict must:
- Withdraw from relevant discussions
- Not participate in decision‑making
- Not influence others involved in the decision
All conflicts and decisions on how they were managed must be recorded in the charity's Conflict‑of‑Interest Register and meeting minutes. Trustees will review the register at least annually. Enabled2Parent will ensure that all arrangements involving potential conflicts are fair, transparent, and demonstrably in the charity's best interests. No individual may receive personal or financial benefit except where expressly permitted under the Charities Act 2011 and approved by the trustees.
Our Volunteers
Gemma Cantan
Marketing Lead
I have over twenty-four years of work experience in a variety of roles and sectors. In 2024, while balancing part-time studies and caring for my disabled son, I decided to utilise my skills through volunteer work in the local community.
With a strong background in social media and marketing, I enjoy helping communities grow through impactful engagement. I am incredibly excited to join as a social media manager, where I can combine my passion for digital engagement while building a supportive online community, sharing valuable resources, and connecting with parents who need encouragement and guidance.
I believe in the power of digital storytelling to raise awareness, inspire action, and bring people together for a greater cause. By amplifying the voices of those who need support, I want to create positive change and help the charity reach the people who need it most.
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Core Values
Inclusivity
We welcome parents from every background and circumstance, making sure everyone feels valued and respected. Our environment breaks down barriers and promotes equity for all.
Community
Building a strong, supportive network is central to what we do. Enabled2Parent offers a place where disabled parents share, connect, and learn together.
Advocacy
We actively promote the rights and needs of disabled parents, pushing for policy changes and greater awareness to remove unnecessary obstacles from parenting journeys.
Empowerment
Our support gives parents the knowledge and tools needed to make informed choices. We strive to help disabled parents grow in confidence and independence.
Accessibility
We're committed to making every service, programme and piece of information accessible to parents, regardless of their disability or needs.
Innovation
Enabled2Parent encourages creative problem-solving and adaptive strategies, making sure we're always finding new ways to support our community.
Ready to Find Support
or Partner With Us?
If you're seeking support for disabled parents, looking for practical advice, or need to connect with inclusive parenting specialists, we're here to help. Enabled2Parent brings together expert knowledge and lived experience to advocate for disabled families across England and Wales.
Call us on 0300 365 4121, email us, or contact us online. As an established organisation for disabled parents across England and Wales, Enabled2Parent is ready to support you.
Enabled2parent became a registered charity (1190879) in 2020.
It evolved from the experiences of our founder, Sarah Fay, a Paediatric Occupational Therapist and a disabled parent herself.